I respect anyone who wants to be referred to with certain pronouns. And I do my best to comply with those wishes. But as for myself, I'm content to be referred to by whatever pronouns seem obvious.
Sometimes I feel like we put too much weight on whether we're seen as a boy or a girl, as if one is better than the other.
Of course, I'm usually perceived as being a he/him, which still conveys on me a lot of perks that I haven't earned, and that's not ok. So how do we go about fixing that?
It's just, I'm not sure that putting all this emphasis on he vs. she is the right way to do it.
